Seriously, is 2010 thisclose to being over?
As I look back at 2010, it’s really hard for me to capture my favorite moments of the year, but I plan to do that, as this year as turned into one of the best years of my life…something I never dreamed possible so soon after my divorce.
As part of that, I wanted to look back at some of my favorite posts of 2010 (here’s my list from last year – some of these continue to be my all-time favorites!):
- My blog series on my divorce: Probably one of the hardest things I have ever written, but with the most reward. The comments and feedback (emails and on my blog directly) were simply amazing.
- There’s Gotta Be Someone for Me Out There: My dealbreakers (and this list also ties in). And man, Doctor Boy fits all of these. Realizing that now as I re-read that post. Wow.
- Happy Birthday To Be Determined!: My blogoversary post was fun to write, and also tied back to some of my favorite posts and reasons why I blog.
- “When the world whispers ‘give up, Hope whispers, try it one more time:” One of several posts on Nala’s illness this year that I cried through writing (this was the other one) and knowing now that she is SO much better, my heart sings. I remember writing this and just praying so hard for improvement. Wow.
- “If I had a single flower for every time I think about you, I could walk forever in my garden:” One year anniversary of my Nonna’s passing. I still miss her every single day, but can feel her all around me. Always.
- My Man Audits (I and II) – these are just funny. Give ‘em a read (perhaps gives new appreciation for finally finding love with Doctor Boy, no?
- Maine, if you were a man, I’d marry you. Wow, I already can’t wait to get back to Maine this summer. Absolutely my favorite memories and posts this year were about Maine. Brings me back to that happiness instantly.
- Sometimes all you need is family and a lot of faith: I wrote a lot about my sister Jen’s illness after she had my niece Isabel and this post makes me cry every time I read it. I was scared, I was worried and my heart was breaking for my sister. Looking back now, I am eternally grateful for her health now and my dear niece Isabel, well, I just love her to pieces…cue, next favorite blog:
- An Open Letter to my Niece Isabel Ann: This post is probably one of my top 3 favorite posts this year. I love her so much and the instantaneously love I felt for her will never, ever wane.
- Defining the Feeling and “Can I ask you a Question?”Two defining moments for me this year, beyond all else. I found love. Finally. Yes, this is it.
- And my bonus favorite post this year? My “I want” post – is still my all-time favorite post for the sheer fact that I got some of the best feedback I have ever gotten from you all. Thank you. Always.
It was so hard to pick some of my favorites because each and every post I write, I write with purpose and with meaning. I love to write, I love to share my story and I love, love, love all of the feedback and this blog family that gets bigger by the day.
2010…well, she had a fair share of ups and downs by as this year slowly comes to a close, the ups far outweigh the downs, like whoa.
December 15, 2010 at 5:31 pm
Ok. Seriously. Cut it out. Now I’m holding back tears as I re-read some of these – the one about Nala. Gets me EVERY time because I remember feeling so vividly afraid to call you after the race because I feared the worst. The one about Jen, about Isabel, about Nonna. All of them make me want to cry. Whoa. You are an amazing writer, I just have to say that. But even more so, an amazing person, and an unbelievable sister. I’m bowled over by how far you’ve come. I’m damn impressed.
December 15, 2010 at 8:55 pm
Thanks sis! No tears, no tears! But I know, every time I read those, I almost cry too. And thank you for saying I am a good writer, it means a lot from you…and all of your other words, wow, thank you sis. I am humbled
December 15, 2010 at 8:10 pm
I don’t even need to re-read these… Your “I Want” post is still stuck in my memory!
December 15, 2010 at 8:53 pm
Aww! Wow, really?? That is so touching, thank you for remembering it still!
December 15, 2010 at 8:12 pm
I loved the one to your niece. I know those intense feelings for a niece. You just can’t describe them, especially when you really have no clue you can feel that way!
December 15, 2010 at 8:54 pm
Thank you Heather! That one is really special to me too. I just love it, nothing can compare to that kind of love, right?
December 15, 2010 at 8:29 pm
You are amazing. I will be back to read this again.. You are touching lives. Amazing!
December 15, 2010 at 8:54 pm
Wow thank you!! I will check out yours too.
December 15, 2010 at 9:50 pm
Some of my faves too! Beautiful writing. You put emotions into words so well!
December 16, 2010 at 9:31 am
thank you so much! I feel like I have written some good posts this year, but now, my mind is in a zillion directions and they aren’t flowing as well. Ah, guess it’s a writing block of some kind
December 16, 2010 at 2:00 am
Thanks for writing a great blog Jolene, I’m glad I discovered it one day when I was googling Cathe’s road trip. I’ve really enjoyed reading it. Thank you.
December 16, 2010 at 9:31 am
I am so glad you found mine too! I forgot that is how you found my blog! I love it!!
December 16, 2010 at 7:12 am
I understand too much about ups and downs. It just seems that we are both finally on the up and up. (He’s talking about trying again! Yay!)
Fingers crossed. Big hugs!
December 16, 2010 at 9:32 am
YES! Finally, we’re both on the up and up! I am so glad to hear that about S as well. Awesome!
December 16, 2010 at 10:09 am
This is a great idea! It’s fun to look back and see what you’ve accomplished in a year. I’m so glad that you’re in a happy place.
December 16, 2010 at 12:23 pm
Thank you! It really is fun to go back and look through. It’s turned into quite a year for sure. I feel very blessed.
December 16, 2010 at 10:09 am
This was great! It has been a hell of a year for you but it is ending on a fab note!
December 16, 2010 at 12:23 pm
thank you friend! It really is ending on a fab note…for you as well! XO!
December 16, 2010 at 1:06 pm
Those lists really work, don’t they? Listing what you want… when it’s clear as day… and then BAM! There it is right in front of you.
So excited to see what life holds in 2011!
December 16, 2010 at 1:37 pm
They really do! Amazing, isn’t it? I think it was you that urged me to write one, one of a few anyway
Cheers to 2011!
December 18, 2010 at 9:09 pm
I thought of #s 9 and 10 before I finished reading your list. Thanks for recapping some of the best of your best for us all!
December 19, 2010 at 5:36 pm
aw really?! That’s so cool, love that